Perhaps I AM meaner and stricter than all the mothers around here. Quite possible from what I've seen.
But when I take you and Mr Wonderful to the mall and instead of staying there, you take the Metro into DC and "go for a walk" around the monuments, what do you expect?
I was all prepared to let you go with him to DC and go to the Newseum. It's just that you didn't have your plans in place early enough, and getting at 2PM to a museum that costs $13 admission and closes at 5PM was not a good plan.
And I had point blank said you couldn't just wander around. You needed somewhere to go when making a trip like that for the first time. And we needed to know where you were!
SC, you violated our trust. You want more freedom, but you can't be trusted to do as you're told and to not do things we've told you not to do.
And it's got nothing to do with the fact that you were with Mr Wonderful, though you think that explains everything on both sides. I'd be just as pissed if you'd done this with any of your female friends!
So you're not going to be taking any more weekend trips with the boy. You're not going to the movies, or anywhere out of the neighborhood, even if there is "nothing to do" around here.
Hope you had a great time, baby. Because it's going to have to last you until your 15th birthday in February. I'm not even sure I'm going to let you see him outside of school.
Damnit, I wish your Nanay was here to help me on this. But my guess is that she's cheering me on, wherever she is.
I know you're mad at me. I can deal with it. Because I'm thinking of what I need to do to raise you to be a responsible, thinking adult.
And I love you with all my heart--more than you will ever know.
Mom