But that's just what a brief bit on NPR said this morning. That studies show that kids in preschools show increased signs of bullying and inability to share.
Please tell me which preschools they studied for this, because my immediate gut reaction was: "Bull-cookies"
Well, not COOKIES. But we ARE talking about the tiny tots, so I'm keeping my language nice and clean......
If anything, what I've observed both as a parent and as a librarian tells me that kids who go to preschool LEARN to share. I mean, how can you learn how to share if you are home alone with Mommy and never have to take turns on things on a regular basis?
Yes, I know. They go to playgroups, etc. But I have seen MOMMIES pushing their kids ahead of other kids in line. There's nothing like having a nice impartial teacher to awaken your kids to the fact that they are not the only kids on the planet!
The same for bullying. A kid who has never learned to share and take turns and has never been told they are NOT the only fish in the pond strikes me as a far bigger risk for turning into a little bully. And any preschool teacher worth her (or his) salary will watch for such behavior and gently but FIRMLY correct it.
Ironically, this piece was on the "Morning Report" edition of "Marketplace" that comes at the end of "Morning Edition". And "Morning Edition" had just run a lengthy piece on the great success of the public preschool programs in Oklahoma. Teachers are required to have DEGREES and are paid an average salary of $35,000. Elsewhere, the national average elsewhere is $24,000, and many schools do not require degrees or certification!
Hmm. Could it be that if we provide a QUALITY education with teachers who are really TRAINED to work with young children we get kids who succeed socially as well as academically? And could it also be that if we DON'T pay preschool teachers what they are worth and don't expect extensive training in CHILD DEVELOPEMENT that we are not going to get good results?
Bad parenting is bad for kids. Bad education is bad for kids.
It seems to be a pretty simple idea to me.
Child's play, in fact.....................