I can't trust my daughter.
Last week she forged my signature on a bad progress report for math rather than bring it home and face the music.
She got grounded. She's had to come to work with me every day instead of being home and on her own. She's been banned from using the computer at home. She's been watched and warned.
Last night, we asked her if she'd done her science homework, and she nodded. But when I asked her to show it to us she admitted she still hadn't found her workbook, and hadn't done it.
I can ground her for another week. I can take away more privileges. I can talk to her until I'm blue in the mouth--and I already have.
But I can't trust her.
She's 12. These are minor things. But next year she'll be 13. And then 14.
Pretty soon she'll be in high school and facing all kinds of choices. I won't be able to monitor her and I want her to be able to make the right decisions.
I'll have to trust her then.
But I can't trust her right now.